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What is the most frustrating thing about dating?
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I seriously find it furstrating when the date is completely not interesting. In the sense that he doesnt have nothing to say or doesnt become creative. Or just becomes boring because we have been to the same place for more then twice. I am the type who enjoys trying new and different things.
ReplyDeleteMigdalia M.
The most frustrating thing about dating for me is the whole starting process. It's like you have to make a good impression on them in only a few hours. Since you rarely know anything about them before the date, you have to take chances with them. By the end of the night you will know if you are interested in them or not. If you aren't, then you just feel like you wasted your whole night.
ReplyDeleteI think the most frustrating thing about dating is being in a long-distance committed relationship. I’ve had first hand experience being in a long-distance relationship for a number of years. It was one of the most difficult and frustrating times of my life. It can be extremely frustrating being away from your significant other. You miss them constantly and visits are never long enough. Relying on phone calls, texts, emails, and instant messages for communication also seems inadequate when you’re missing that special someone. I think being in a long-term relationship is by far the most frustrating aspect of dating.
ReplyDeleteI think the most difficult thing about dating is that you never really know what your getting. Everyone is always trying to put their best foot forward and make a good impression. You never find out their true personalities until a lot of time has pasted. Sometimes people are really good at keeping secrets and hiding things. So you never know the other side of them.
ReplyDeleteThe most frustrating part of dating would be just starting over. Starting over with someone who doesn't know you and having to set a good impression. which makes the whole process even more nervous, other than that i do think that dating gives you an open eye to get to know different people. Theres also that part of making sure the date isn't boring or that you have things to talk about. I guess first dates are just frustrating over all.
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Rosemary E.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing more frustrating than dating someone which you can never tell how they feel about you or you don't even know where things are going. They may seem very interested in you all the time, but never want to take it to the next level. For whatever reason, most people are not clear about what they are expecting when they begin dating someone. I feel it should be part of the first conversation. "So, what is it you're looking for when dating someone?" Simple as that. Either you're looking to just have fun or you're looking to eventually be committed. If things are clear than the other person can make a choice of whether they want to go forward with that person and they know what to expect.
The most frustrating thing about dating is thinking of things do in my opinion, It kind of sucks when you run out of places to go and you feel the other person is getting boored with you, when there's nothing new to do, etc.How many times can you do the same thing with someone That's just my opinion, or my paranoia.
ReplyDeleteKevin
The most frustrating thing about dating is trust, the key to every relationship or any potential relationship is TRUST successful or not .
ReplyDeleteAARON B
The most frustrating thing about dating is the games we must play. The "games" exist for both men and women. We must continually have some kind of hot pursuit for things to remain interesting. The thrill of the chase and figuring out what makes people tick. When I was younger, I lived for the "games". They were exciting and new. However, there came a time when this type of dating just got old. Why couldn't we be straight up about our wants, needs and desires without coming across as desperate or crazy? However, it has come apparent to me that these games are a necessity in dating. That is why we usually wait at least 2 days before calling after a first date. There are always exceptions to the rule especially if alcohol is involved! I am now married and don't miss trying to figure out the guy, over analyzing every situation and not calling him until the "expected" time. It is a tough world out there in single land and I'm glad I'm not in it anymore.
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Sandra T.
ReplyDeleteThe most frustrating thing about dating when you realize that you don't both want the same thing out of the relationship. Then, it doesn't really matter how much you like each other, because it isn't really going to go anywhere until you're both on the same page.
The worst thing about dating is investing time with someone only to discover they haven't been completely honest about their past, like they say they're divorced, but they're really only separated, or they say they're "over" their ex and yet they talk about her incessantly and call her all kinds of derogatory names. The last guy I dated had been divorced for about three years and had his daughters and his grandson living with him. He had a good relationship with his ex-wife because of the kids and grandkids, which I see as a positive. So we're dating a few weeks -- still "courting" and getting to know each other -- and one night at dinner he has "something" to tell me. Seems his ex-wife has a lot of emotional problems and hasn't been able to hold down a job, so he's let her move back into the family house -- but he doesn't want me to worry because her bedroom is in the basement and he only sees her when she comes up to the kitchen for meals. Groan!! Well, that was a deal breaker for me . . . and that was the end of that!
ReplyDeleteLaureano N.
ReplyDeleteI think the most frustrating thing about dating is the "games." People your dating sometimes act like they are so into you only to realize later that you were just a toy they used to get over a bad realtionship. Then again if there isn't a "game" to be played it just isn't intriguing or fun. At the end of the day though you have to try and find someone who takes you serious and doesnt just lead you on!
The most frustrating thing about dating is having a different sense of humor. People are raised from different backgrounds, and the life experience can be vastly different. Discussing the differences can be very engaging and entertaining. However, if two people do not share the same sense of humor, conversation can be dull and almost tiring. Humor is a key component in making an initial connection, especially when two people are trying to get to know each other. It could make the awkward situation livelier. Without having that common route to make the connection, a date can be disastrous and often to lead to extreme frustration.
ReplyDeleteThe most frustrating thing about dating is being in a long distance relationship. It can be very frustrating when you want to be with the one you love and not have that person around in a time when you may just need a hug and some assurance of their love. On numerous occasion I have decided on giving up the relationship but I am glad I didn't because I am now married to and living with the one I was destined for.
ReplyDeleteOh my god the most frustrating thing about dating is trying to read the other persons actions and reactions to you. I think when your dating someone you just met it's completely nerve racking. You don't want to say the wrong thing or look a certain way, you've got to be strong, confident, and sexy, while being cool, calm, and easy going! It's annoying! I really hate dating. Plus when you go out to dinner you have to stare at each other and fill in the silence. I really just don't enjoy dating period. I wish you could meet someone and try to be friends first for a couple of months with out them seeing other people then start dating, but only in my dreams that would happen.
ReplyDeleteThe most frustrating thing about dating is when you find out that the person you are courting doesn't correspond to your intellectual criteria and that you have to continue with the meaningless dialogue.
ReplyDeleteHazel tells LaVerne
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Zena W.
Christie K
ReplyDeleteThe most frustrating thing about dating is putting effort and time into a person, and finding out in the end that they are a completely different person than you once thought. Everyone that starts dating wants the other person to think positively of them. When your getting to know someone, its sometimes hard to decipher what is real and what is not. People will act a certain way and will do anything to win you over. It is frustrating being on the same page and trusting a person only to find out later, it wasn't meant to be.
The most frustrating thing about dating is dating a person who does things according to society. I hate people like that. I do everything i do in life according to how i feel, how i view things, i dont allow society to make decissions for me.So when it comes to relationships i do what i want according to how i feel and if i need oppinions i have close friends and relatives i can talk to who know me for me.I will always prefer talk to the guy im with before anyone else about us. Im too free to be tied down to expectations and limitations.
ReplyDeleteMelisa Alvarez
I think the most frustrating thing about dating has to be when you can't figure if the other person could possibly feel the same way you feel towards them. Also, trying to figure out if the other person has the same interest as u do, or if there's any chemistry between the two individuals at all, because you really can't go by what ever they tell you.
ReplyDeleteDanny G.
NicholeD said...
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to the opposite sex, males they are untrustworthy and in return lack trust in us (women). Therefore, this causes consist arguing which leads to stress and frustration. It is also a common thought that our significant other is a 'mind-reader' and should be able to know when we are upset and why. Unfortunately, common man was not equipped with this sixth sense. Another cause of frustration in relationships would be the lack of communication and compromise.
Nichole D.